Nothing ventured Nothing gained.

"Say what you need to say" those are the great words of john Mayer. While most people believe that we should keep how we feel to ourselves to keep from getting hurt. I believe that we shouldnt. Why? Not to sound cliche well actually no! To be cliche life is about taking risk. And sitting back while life happens is not an option. Say what you feel and how you feel. If someone makes you angry walk right up to them and tell them to buzz off! Or if you love someone run up to them and tell them. If they don't love you back then go to the store buy some mini donuts and some movies and be sad for the week then get over. Whatever it is that you need to say then shout it from the ruff top. Once a person told me that "openness and honesty is best when the time is appropriate" Well that's all good except the time thing. its always appropriate to say what you need to say. So after you're done reading this and if you have something important to say then screw the outcome and go say it!

Xoxo
Tiandra

Destiny is for You to Choose!

“Destiny is for losers. It's just a stupid excuse to wait for things to happen instead of making them happen.” - Blair Waldorf

 This happens to be one of my favorite quotes; and no it wasn't written by a philosopher or a proffers or philologist. This quotes happens to be from a wonderful character named Blair from one of my favorite TV shows Gossip Girl.
Now you might be thinking now why would this quote have any importance or credibility because it came from an actress. What we fail to realize is that it doesn't matter where something came from all that matters is what it means to YOU! sure it was written by someone who made the script. But that really doesn't matter! all that matters is what we take from it!

Now what I happen to take from this quote is that we make our own destiny! why?! because we make our own decisions! we are constantly sitting around waiting for life to throw something that we want right in our hands! Now some of us might believe in God and others believe in nothing. If you believe in God then all he is going to do is show you what to do, but you need to do it! and for those of you who don't then you really have no excuse as to why you're sitting around not moving your BUTT! we need to stop hoping for things to happen. Hope is there to give us Faith! and Faith is there for us to DO! so get up and DO! We all know the great saying Carpe Diem! and if you don't it basically means Seize the Day! and most of us wait to do that. But if we continue to wait to seize the day then what we want or who we want might be gone! I know this all to well and I guess I am still learning it.  Sure something's take time but there's really only one thing that we can be sure of is and that is Time changes everything. until next time.

XOXO
Tiandra